IF I DON’T LIKE SOMETHING ABOUT MY LIFE
I don’t work out how I’m gonna fix it, I focus on what I LOVE about my life and let the solutions to my problems come to me.
I’ve decided to stay in love forever! What about you?
~ from the author of 500 Confessions
I CAN INFLUENCE OTHERS
I find it empowering when I hold a vision in my mind of who I know someone really is, despite the behaviour they may be currently exhibiting and shine the light so brightly for them that they can do nothing else but see it too.
~ CONFESSION #441
Problems are temporary … and only last as long as I keep thinking about them.
So I go out and have as much fun as I can and do my best to not let them effect me, or else I’d get caught up in the drama of it all and be no use to anyone.
A relationship can still thrive, even if one mate is temporally facing challenges, even if one mate seems to be temporally heading in a different direction, even if one mate is temporarily focused somewhere else, even if one mate is temporarily missing in action … ONE PERSON WHO’S ALIGNED WITH LOVE can positively influence the lives of many and profoundly shape the course of the future.
Elizabeth Richardson
P.S. I love to love and to hold the highest thoughts of my mate, no matter what might seem to be going on. It doesn’t always keep the relationship together, but it does keep ME together, and that’s the most important part of all.
TIP #59 – I ONLY HAVE ONE TIP ON HOW TO FALL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN
Remember what it was like when you were blind to the faults, when you asked nothing of your mate, when you didn’t need anything to be different, when you just loved wholeheartedly because it was a natural expression of your inner soul? Find that place again and live there as often as you can! Not because you should, but because it’s who you really are.
P.S. I love falling in love again and it’s totally up to me to find that vibe. What would YOU like to fall in love with all over again?
I ENJOY MAKING UP WITH MY MATE … I overlook the need for an apology.
Can I instead tempt you to smear freezing cold ice-cream over my body as punishment for whatever you think I’ve done wrong?
I dunno … maybe some gentle spanking might be in order too … lol.
Sexual healing has far more success than discussing issues can possibly overcome
as it takes us out of our minds and connects us to a more spiritually fulfilling place.
~ from the author of 500 Confessions
THE SECRET TO A LOVE FILLED LIFE … Give without expecting anything in return.
THE SECRET TO A HAPPY LIFE … Please yourself!
THE SECRET TO AN EXCELLENT LIFE … Focus!
THE SECRET TO A PEACEFUL LIFE … Care more about being happy than about being right!
THE SECRET TO A FULFILLED LIFE … Fill yourself up with whatever makes you feel good and let the excess naturally shower over others!
THE SECRET TO AN EASY LIFE … Stop trying so hard! 😉
THE SECRET TO MANIFESTING EVERYTHING I WANT IN MY LIFE … Believe that good things are always knocking at the door, and just let them in!
~ (NEW Confessions #700)
THE HARDEST THINGS CAN BE THE MOST REWARDING
TO ACCEPT – even when I felt like condemning.
TO LOVE – even when my heart was hurting.
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF -. even when others doubted my abilities.
TO FIND STRENGTH – even when all hope was lost.
TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS .- even when I was afraid of the result.
TO TRUST MY INNER GUIDANCE – even though I was feeling stuck.
TO GO FOR WHAT I REALLY WANTED – even though it seemed unreasonable.
TO ALLOW MYSELF TO BE VULNERABLE – even when I was crying out for certainty.
TO HAVE FAITH THAT EVERYTHING IS WORKING OUT PERFECTLY – even if it seemed far from the truth.
TO KNOW IT’S OK TO BE WHERE I’M AT – because this too will change,
even if I don’t know the answer,
even if I haven’t found clarity,
even if I’m not yet aware of the solution
and even if I do nothing at all.
I INTEND TO KEEP BEING …
insanely happy, ridiculously prosperous,
delightfully free, absurdly light hearted,
expansively loving and intoxicatingly crazy …
Woo hoo!
… and to declare the other details of my life
to be completely, totally and utterly irrelevant to it all.
~ from the author of 500 Confessions
WHAT SOMEONE ELSE THINKS IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS
When I focus on being true to myself, thinking happy thoughts, having uplifting conversations and doing the things I am most inspired to do, there is no need to ask questions about what someone else might be doing, thinking or feeling.
What I AM thinking and feeling is the only thing that I can ever be certain of and is the only thing that ever really matters.
Elizabeth xox
1. I FOUND THAT FOOD INTOLERANCE (gluten, chocolate and sugar) … was caused by “criticism” about what other people were doing with their diets and how corporations were treating our food.
SOLUTION: Mind my own business.
2. I FOUND THAT WEIGHT GAIN (up to 10kgs) … was caused by “low self worth” and trying to love others more than I was loving myself.
SOLUTION: Stop trying to achieve some perfect standard and find ways to be satisfied with what I HAVE right now. Stop comparing myself to other women and find things to adore about WHO I AM right now. Start being aware of how I really feel and aim to feel just a little better now. Start acknowledging my secret inner desires and go for WHAT I WANT right now.
3. I FOUND THAT CRITICAL ILLNESS (undisclosed) … was caused by “constantly trying to help other people” instead of caring for my body, my connection to Source and my own needs first.
SOLUTION: I did whatever I needed to restore physical equilibrium, rediscover my true emotions and revitalize my spiritual connection. I stopped trying to tell others how they should live and now I simply show them what’s really possible.
4. I FOUND THAT A DEBILITATING INJURY … (only a matter of months ago) was the result of guilt about withholding something that someone else was wanting from me.
SOLUTION: Trust that the Universe will continue to guide me closer to the answer that best serves all those involved (especially me). ~ ER
BRAND NEW CONFESSION TO BE INSERTED IN Book 3 … who knew there would be more 🙂
500 CONFESSIONS BOOK 1 | 500 CONFESSIONS BOOK 2 | UNCONDITIONAL HAPPINESS (for women) | RELEASING RESISTANCE (for men)
WHENEVER I GET FRUSTRATED that something isn’t turning out how I thought it would, it doesn’t mean I’m not good enough to have it — it means I haven’t set my sights high enough to feel the ultimate thrill of what’s really possible. Now I’m gonna reach for the stars baby woooo hoooo
~ From the author of 500 Confessions
When things AREN’T working out how you thought they might, that ISN’T the time to wish for less and lower your standards, that’s the perfect time to open up, to step up and to allow even more.
It’s all still there, waiting for you to receive it.
P.S. Are you ready to receive?
I’M GONNA STOP WISHING FOR THINGS TO CHANGE
Instead I intend to “welcome” everything that comes my way with open arms, to find the gifts, to feel the blessings, to sense the positive intent, to understand the benefits, to accept the feelings, to appreciate the experience, to joyfully choose which parts to keep, to peacefully release the parts I’d rather to let go and to love my life completely, just the way it is.
~ from the author of 500 Confessions
I SET BOUNDARIES
… but the boundaries I set are for my benefit, not to condemn someone else’s behaviour. If I’m temporarily unable to find a persons most positive aspects when I think about them, I withdraw my attention from them completely until I can.
YOU SEE I LOVE TO FEEL GOOD more than anything else. I love feeling free, I love finding the best in others, I love to give love, share love, create love and make love because it’s the most enjoyable experience I’ve ever known.
Elizabeth Richardson (Author of 500 Confessions)
P.S. Did you find that thought slightly comforting? That’s what these messages are intending to do.
ONE OF MY GREATEST JOYS …
is when I find my own alignment again,
without anything or anyone else
needing to change at all.
I HAVE THE POWER
The power to choose where I place my attention.
The power to decide which conversations I’ll engage in.
The power to take time out when I need it.
The power to stop expecting myself and others to behave so perfectly.
The power to think more positive thoughts, speak more supportive words
and to give unconditionally from my heart,
because it is who I intend to be.
~ from the author of 500 Confessions
THE BEST FOREPLAY FOR WOMEN … has little to do with her mate and everything to do with the way she nurtures her body, soothes her mind and enlivens her spirit. Feeling sensual, sexy, soft, pretty, sweet, playful and naughty are useful feminine emotions that will entice the perfect masculine attention we so often crave.
Even as a single woman I would dress up and dance, soak in the tub, burn scented candles and do whatever it took to make myself feel ‘special’ … our energy attracts like bees to pollen … and our men love a reason to be out of their minds!
Don’t you agree?
