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Advice For A Happy Life – FOR MEN

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15 Empowering Suggestions to make life easier, happier, and a whole lot more fun!—A GUIDE FOR RELEASING RESISTANCE.

Each suggestion in this fabulous FREE mini-book is an empowering process on its own. These insights help lay the foundation for the work (or play) we explore together in the recently published Releasing Resistance Interactive Journal. But you don’t need to purchase that to experience the benefits here. If you’ve been drawn to this mini-book for any reason, the rewards will soon become clear—just stay open to them. That’s all you need to do.

I like to call these suggestions, ‘Advice for Life‘. Pick the ones that resonate the most with you and write them down in a notepad. Read them each day for the next 17 days to remind you of the little things you can do to release your resistance to receiving whatever it is you still want to be, do, have, or create in your life.

Are you ready to set yourself free?

This FREE download includes PDF to read on your computer, iPhone, Tablet, or your Kindle app too. Enjoy!

P.S. You can find Advice For A Happy Life – FOR WOMEN here. Same books, just different covers (I am currently testing to see which one is more appealing). ~ Elizabeth xox

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Today’s *FOCUS* Message

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Good Things Keep Happening

… even if you’re not fully aligned,
even if you’ve made some mistakes,
even if you’re not yet high and happy,
even if you’ve temporarily lost your mojo,
even if you’re not at the peak of your game,
even if you’ve attracted something confronting,
even if you’re not feeling loving, or connected, or clear.

Good things keep happening, without needing to do anything at all.

Relax and allow. Relax and allow.
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How To Change Some Common Attitudes

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These are some simple ways I made changes to my attitude on topics like business, relationships, friendship, mission, commitment, money, credibility, being successful, attractive, loved and being a good parent.

Once I realized how much better it felt to shift my attitude slightly like this, there was no going back … just forward, to the life of my dreams!

  • BUSINESS WAS … how can I generate the most income?
  • BUSINESS IS … how can I have the most fun?
  • A RELATIONSHIP WAS … how can I get my needs met?
  • A RELATIONSHIP IS … how can I BE, more of me?
  • FRIENDSHIP WAS … it’s all about who I’m with!
  • FRIENDSHIP IS … it’s so much more about “who I’M BEING” no matter who I’m with!
  • A COMMITMENT WAS … a vow I needed from another so I could feel safe.
  • A COMMITMENT IS … a vow I make with myself to regularly re-connect with my own deep inner security, no matter what the other is up to.
  • MONEY WAS … something I thought I needed so that I could have everything I want.
  • MONEY IS … something that just “breathes” in and out naturally, as a result of choosing to FEEL exactly how I want.

I love how that works, don’t you 🙂

  • CREDIBILITY WAS … something I thought I needed to earn, so I could be valued by others.
  • CREDIBILITY IS … something I declare privately I AM, so I can value myself first.
  • BEING ATTRACTIVE WAS … achieving an outward appearance that would make me feel happy.
  • BEING ATTRACTIVE IS … aligning with a happy inner radiance, that just makes me shine.
  • BEING A SUCCESS ONCE MEANT … proving to others how incredible I am.
  • BEING A SUCCESS REALLY MEANS … knowing so profoundly that “I am enough!”
  • BEING LOVED WAS … something I defined by how others were treating me.
  • BEING LOVED IS … something that just comes easily, when I treat myself well first.
  • MY MISSION WAS … to bring light to a dark world so I could prove my life had great value.
  • MY MISSION NOW IS … to thrive, to have fun, to find blessings, to feel joy!

“I’m not here to bring light to the world, I’m here to BE the light!”

  • MY JOB AS A PARENT WAS … warning my kids about problems they might face.
  • MY JOB AS A PARENT REALLY IS … encouraging them to listen to their own inner guidance, knowing they’ll find their own way much easier, if I get out of it.
  • CONNECTION WAS … something I needed to have with another so I could feel grounded and whole.
  • CONNECTION IS … a “feeling of oneness with everything” without needing to change anyone or anything else at all.

While I might not be able to change my circumstances immediately, I can change my attitude right now!

~ an excerpt from 500 Confessions Book 2

It Feels Good To Trust

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TRUST IS A GIFT THAT I GIVE TO MYSELF … not the other person.

I trust my mate, I trust my kids, I trust my friends,

NOT because they’ve proved they’re trustworthy,

but because I deserve to go through life

with a sense of peace and serenity,

instead of being plagued by suspicion and doubt.

I know that things always work out perfectly for me

no matter what happens.

~ from the author of 500 Confessions

Quickly Change What You’re Attracting And Get What You Really Want! – FOR WOMEN

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15 Common Attitudes That Create *Big* Resistance, AND HOW YOU CAN EASILY LET THEM GO—A GUIDE FOR UNCONDITIONAL HAPPINESS.

This concise yet powerful mini-guide helps you identify and shift common attitudes that create resistance in life. Sometimes, simply reading about these attitudes can spark ‘aha’ moments, revealing something you may not have noticed before. This newfound awareness can dissolve resistance, opening the door to more positive and fulfilling feelings and attract more of what you truly want, by changing your vibration, your mindset, and your focus.

These insights help lay the foundation for the work (or play) we explore together in the recently published Unconditional Happiness Interactive Journal. But you don’t need to purchase that to experience the benefits here. If you’ve been drawn to this mini-book for any reason, the rewards will soon become clear—just stay open to them. That’s all you need to do.

Here are some of the key strategies to shifting focus and changing attitudes:

  1. Awareness and Interruption: Recognize when you are engaging in resistant thoughts and interrupt the pattern. For example, if you think “There’s nothing I can do about it,” acknowledge it and then shift your focus to something more enjoyable. ​
  2. Positive Focus: Instead of fighting against something, focus on what you want. ​ For instance, rather than fighting a problem, concentrate on wellness and positive aspects. ​
  3. Look Forward: If you feel you’ve missed an opportunity, look ahead to new opportunities instead of dwelling on the past. ​
  4. Alignment: Align yourself with what you want to achieve. ​ When you are in alignment, things get done more easily and effortlessly. ​
  5. Positive Aspects: When faced with decisions, focus on the positive aspects of each option rather than weighing pros and cons, which can create conflicting thoughts.
  6. Acceptance and Choice: Make peace with where you are and choose what you want to focus on instead. ​ This helps in reducing resistance and moving towards desired outcomes. ​
  7. Unconditional Receiving: Practice receiving gifts and help without feeling the need to repay, which reduces the resistance associated with obligations.
  8. Focus on Agreement: In disagreements, focus on common ground and solutions rather than the problem itself. ​

Sometimes just reading about an attitude can set lightbulbs off in your brain—you are noticing something being said simply and clearly that you might not have ever noticed before. Just a basic awareness like this can lift the resistance, leading to a more positive and fulfilling life. And, if you stop for a moment right now and take a deep breath or two, you’ll be on your way to letting in more of those fabulous things you’ve been wishing to receive as well. 

Do you have any Attitudes that create *Big* Resistance?

Feel free to download this useful Mini-Guide and find out for yourself. By the way, our guides don’t contain marketing hype, invitations to sign up to lists, or any hidden agenda. They are created with the sole intent to assist others in feeling better in easy, sensible, sustainable, and smart ways.  Enjoy!

Elizabeth Richardson (Author & Facilitator)

P.S. You can find Quickly Change What You’re Attracting – FOR MEN here. Same books, just different covers.

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Quickly Change What You’re Attracting And Get What You Really Want! – FOR MEN

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15 Common Attitudes That Create *Big* Resistance, AND HOW YOU CAN EASILY LET THEM GO—A GUIDE FOR RELEASING RESISTANCE.

This concise yet powerful mini-guide helps you identify and shift common attitudes that create resistance in life. Sometimes, simply reading about these attitudes can spark ‘aha’ moments, revealing something you may not have noticed before. This newfound awareness can dissolve resistance, opening the door to more positive and fulfilling feelings and attract more of what you truly want, by changing your vibration, your mindset, and your focus.

These insights help lay the foundation for the work (or play) we explore together in the recently published Releasing Resistance Interactive Journal. But you don’t need to purchase that to experience the benefits here. If you’ve been drawn to this mini-book for any reason, the rewards will soon become clear—just stay open to them. That’s all you need to do.

Here are some of the key strategies to shifting focus and changing attitudes:

  1. Awareness and Interruption: Recognize when you are engaging in resistant thoughts and interrupt the pattern. For example, if you think “There’s nothing I can do about it,” acknowledge it and then shift your focus to something more enjoyable. ​
  2. Positive Focus: Instead of fighting against something, focus on what you want. ​ For instance, rather than fighting a problem, concentrate on wellness and positive aspects. ​
  3. Look Forward: If you feel you’ve missed an opportunity, look ahead to new opportunities instead of dwelling on the past. ​
  4. Alignment: Align yourself with what you want to achieve. ​ When you are in alignment, things get done more easily and effortlessly. ​
  5. Positive Aspects: When faced with decisions, focus on the positive aspects of each option rather than weighing pros and cons, which can create conflicting thoughts.
  6. Acceptance and Choice: Make peace with where you are and choose what you want to focus on instead. ​ This helps in reducing resistance and moving towards desired outcomes. ​
  7. Unconditional Receiving: Practice receiving gifts and help without feeling the need to repay, which reduces the resistance associated with obligations.
  8. Focus on Agreement: In disagreements, focus on common ground and solutions rather than the problem itself. ​

Sometimes just reading about an attitude can set lightbulbs off in your brain—you are noticing something being said simply and clearly that you might not have ever noticed before. Just a basic awareness like this can lift the resistance, leading to a more positive and fulfilling life. And, if you stop for a moment right now and take a deep breath or two, you’ll be on your way to letting in more of those fabulous things you’ve been wishing to receive as well. 

Do you have any Attitudes that create *Big* Resistance?

Feel free to download this useful Mini-Guide and find out for yourself. By the way, our guides don’t contain marketing hype, invitations to sign up to lists, or any hidden agenda. They are created with the sole intent to assist others in feeling better in easy, sensible, sustainable, and smart ways.  Enjoy!

Elizabeth Richardson (Author & Facilitator)

P.S. You can find Quickly Change What You’re Attracting – FOR WOMEN here. Same books, just different covers.

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22 Ways To Change – FREE E-BOOK

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AN UNCONDITIONAL GIFT

I’m not here to sell you something, I’m not offering a free report, I’m not booking a time for a webinar, I’m not intending to teach a study course. I won’t suggest you leave a testimonial, sign up for the mailing list, join us on facebook, well, you get the gist … I’m not asking you for anything at all.

The good things in life come SO much easier than that!

And that’s just what the words in this e-book will most likely give you, an easier way feel good. There are no recommendations to be given, no rules to follow, no incredible claims enclosed. There’s no advice to take, no long stories to read, no great secrets exposed. Just 22 really short and simple ways to change your attitude that will probably help you feel just a little bit better than you did before.

But don’t be fooled into thinking this e-book has no value just because you didn’t have to pay for it. I found out that some of the most wonderful things in life are FREE!

GET YOUR FREE E-BOOK NOW to read on your computer, phone, iPad or Kindle, give it away for Christmas, print it, sell it, do whatever you like with it, and know that it’s simply a gift, from my heart to yours. xox ~ From the author of 500 Confessions

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How To Change Unconscious Negative Thinking

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1. I FOUND THAT FOOD INTOLERANCE (gluten, chocolate and sugar) … was caused by “criticism” about what other people were doing with their diets and how corporations were treating our food.

SOLUTION: Mind my own business.

2. I FOUND THAT WEIGHT GAIN (up to 10kgs) … was caused by “low self worth” and trying to love others more than I was loving myself.

SOLUTION: Stop trying to achieve some perfect standard and find ways to be satisfied with what I HAVE right now. Stop comparing myself to other women and find things to adore about WHO I AM right now. Start being aware of how I really feel and aim to feel just a little better now. Start acknowledging my secret inner desires and go for WHAT I WANT right now.

3. I FOUND THAT CRITICAL ILLNESS (undisclosed) … was caused by “constantly trying to help other people” instead of caring for my body, my connection to Source and my own needs first.

SOLUTION: I did whatever I needed to restore physical equilibrium, rediscover my true emotions and revitalize my spiritual connection. I stopped trying to tell others how they should live and now I simply show them what’s really possible.

4. I FOUND THAT A DEBILITATING INJURY … (only a matter of months ago) was the result of guilt about withholding something that someone else was wanting from me.

SOLUTION: Trust that the Universe will continue to guide me closer to the answer that best serves all those involved (especially me). ~ ER

 BRAND NEW CONFESSION TO BE INSERTED IN Book 3 … who knew there would be more 🙂

500 CONFESSIONS BOOK 1 | 500 CONFESSIONS BOOK 2 | UNCONDITIONAL HAPPINESS (for women) | RELEASING RESISTANCE (for men)

The Easy Way To Get Out Of A Rut

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WHEN I’M STUCK IN A RUT … I just have to relax.

That’s not the best time to try and fix anything, that’s not the best time to make big decisions, that’s not the best time to have a meaningful conversation, that’s not the best time to do business, that’s not the best time to get in the car and drive and it certainly isn’t the best time to vent. 

The quality of my life seems to be determined more by how much I can chill out during the challenging times, stay as quiet as possible, affirm that it will pass soon enough, remember that it’s all worked out before, believe I’m being looked after and trust that better things are coming.

ENJOY THE CONTRAST … expansion is on the way.

Don’t expect to stop something unpleasant in mid-flight. Attracting contrast doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. Enjoying a happy moment doesn’t mean you’re good.  It’s just an “indication” of where your energy is currently at, that’s all! Just ride out the energy until it passes – and it will soon enough.

When I’m flying high, I always know what to do next. I feel clear. I feel sure. I feel a confident. I feel alive. I feel powerful. Wild horses couldn’t stop me from heading in the direction that feels really good in that moment, but until I’m there, I need a reminder of what works best for me.

HERE’S WHAT HELPS ME GET OUT OF A RUT … QUICKLY.

  1. Stop what I’m doing.
  2. Breathe …………………………….. Breathe deeper ……………………………. Breathe deeper again.
  3. Change my focus, change what I’ve been thinking about, change from sitting, to standing or lying down, change the speed I’m walking, change my posture, change my clothes, change my proximity to the problem too.
  4. That usually does it for me. Life was meant to be easy.

WHEN YOU FEEL SOME RESISTANCE LIFT … That’s the time to celebrate. That’s the time to say your affirmations. That’s the time to write. That’s the time to share your story. That’s the time to make love. That’s the time to DO whatever your bliss is calling you to do. The energy that flows freely during this time achieves a thousand times more powerful than at any other. You know it well. ~ ER

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P.S. Does that work for you too?

Leading Myself Into The Light – free

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LIFE IS MEANT TO BE EASY, AND FUN, AND EXCITING, AND FREE … and this easy to read mini book contains the most simple yet attitude changing statements that might help you feel better, wake you up, reaffirm what you already know or have you nodding your head in agreement.

I’m not here to sell you anything, to post affiliate links or to get you to sign up on a mailing list. Nor am I going to pretend that this book is normally worth $24.95 and you are blessed to get it for free … I didn’t write this because I thought you needed to read it, I wrote this to benefit me … and adopting the attitudes contained in this series of uplifting statements has helped me live a much happier life, created income out of thin air and renewed every relationship I’ve ever had, especially the relationship I have with myself!

I found simple ways to significantly improve the quality of my life in all areas, easily, effortlessly, speedily and with so many laughs along the way. I found inner fulfilment beyond my wildest dreams. I didn’t need to change my location, my mate, my job or win the lottery, it was much easier than that … I just changed ME!

“From falling in love to achieving success. From making money to changing the world. From solving other people’s problems to what makes a relationship really work. It’s all here, waiting patiently for you to receive it.”

There are no instructions or processes, no guidelines or steps, just a few simple words that might free your mind, lighten the load, get you back on track and take you closer, to where you really want to go. Enjoy! ~ From the author of 500 Confessions.

This FREE download includes PDF to read on your computer, iPhone, Tablet, or your Kindle app too. ( We aim to please 🙂 ) Enjoy!

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What To Do When Something Bad Happens

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WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS … it means, whatever you want it to mean! So make it mean something that feels freakin’ good.

I’m on track.
Something better is coming.
This is preparing me for my next adventure.
There’s more where that came from.
I’m getting wiser.
That helps me get clearer.
What a great opportunity to start again.
Nothing ends, it just keeps evolving.
Bring it on! I can handle anything!
If it feels good – it’s good FOR ME.

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P.S. What meaning will YOU give it?

I Set Boundaries

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I SET BOUNDARIES

… but the boundaries I set are for my benefit, not to condemn someone else’s behaviour. If I’m temporarily unable to find a persons most positive aspects when I think about them, I withdraw my attention from them completely until I can.

YOU SEE I LOVE TO FEEL GOOD more than anything else. I love feeling free, I love finding the best in others, I love to give love, share love, create love and make love because it’s the most enjoyable experience I’ve ever known.

Elizabeth Richardson (Author of 500 Confessions)