FOUR SIMPLE (Leading-Edge) ATTITUDES THAT BOOST THE ENERGY IN MY RELATIONSHIP
1. I TAKE CARE OF MY OWN NEEDS FIRST … When I’m full of love for life, the people around me are showered with affection, appreciation and praise. I need nothing from them and can give from a totally unconditional place.
“We only NEED something from others when we haven’t been looking after ourselves.” ~ ER
2. I TREAT MYSELF WELL … After studying “Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus”, I started practicing BEING OK when a guy takes time out from the relationship (also called “going to his cave”). I make sure I treat my body, mind and soul beautifully all the time, especially while he’s temporarily absent and TRUST he will come back even stronger than before.
3. I OPEN MY HEART BEFORE I OPEN MY MOUTH … After working extensively with the teachings of Abraham Hicks, I now do whatever it takes to get myself into my happy/empowered/centered place BEFORE I start an important conversation, before I make a new decision, before we go out, before making love, before I do almost anything at all.
4. I EXPRESS HOW I’M REALLY FEELING QUICKLY – THEN LET IT GO … After many wonderful relationships I’ve found there’s nothing that moves energy quicker than being honest and open about where I’m at emotionally, BUT always with an intention to clear the air, to help myself feel better and NOT make my mate responsible for any of it … no processing, no fixing, no explaining and definitely no blaming … It helps when I start the conversation with something like, “I feel like crap and I just want to express. You don’t need to do anything, I’ll feel better soon!”
Ahhhh, I’m feeling better already 🙂
With so much love,
P.S. What things do you do that boost you up too?
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