8 Ways to Ruin a Relationship—and How to Fix It in a Flash

  1. IT’S EASY TO RUIN A RELATIONSHIP…
    Just by talking about the negative aspects of my mate. Even thinking about faults can shift the energy, creating tension that lingers like a bad smell in the air. Sometimes, both people end up feeling awful, without even knowing why!

FORTUNATELY, IT’S JUST AS EASY TO FIX IT…
By remembering our happiest moments, appreciating what’s great in the present, and envisioning an even better future together. A little acknowledgment of positive behaviours goes a long way in rekindling the warmth.

  1. IT’S EASY TO MESS UP A RELATIONSHIP…
    Simply by talking about problems. The more we focus on issues, the bigger they seem to grow, our level of intimacy dissipates rapidly, and the distance between us feels wider than ever.

FORTUNATELY, FIXING IT IS SIMPLE…
By moving into solution mode—exploring ideas together, welcoming insights from others, and trusting that the universe is cooking up even greater solutions tailor-made just for us.

  1. IT’S EASY TO DIMINISH THE LOVE A RELATIONSHIP…
    By expecting something in return for what I give to my mate. Love isn’t about trading favours, compromising, or keeping score—it’s about free-flowing generosity. Keeping tabs can suffocate passion like taking a fish out of water!

FORTUNATELY, IT’S EASY TO CHANGE …
By honouring myself enough to give what I want, whenever I want, as often as I want, to whoever I want, and NOT expect anything in return. When I treat myself well first, love spills over to everyone around me, naturally, with no strings attached.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO KILL A MAN’S PASSION…
    Is by insisting he put our relationship first above everything else—his mission, his hobbies, his friends, his work. A man’s purpose is as essential to his life as the air that he breathes. When he chooses to do it of his own free will, without prompting or guidance, well, there is not much on earth that compares to that feeling!

FORTUNATELY, I CAN CHANGE THIS FAST & COME BACK INTO MY OWN POWER…
By nurturing my own needs, by taking time out, by treating my body, by calming my mind, by soothing my soul, and reigniting my feminine energy, knowing this fresh new glow will most likely draw him in, closer than ever.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO KILL A WOMAN’S PASSION…
    Is by expecting her to be calm, reasonable, and rational. (Yes, that will do it every time!)

FORTUNATELY, THERE’S A REALLY QUICK, EASY, AND FUN WAY TO FIX THIS…
Embracing her waves of emotion and intensity can spark the fire in a relationship in ways you might never expect. The variety she provides is like taking an incredible holiday in a brand new destination every day, for the rest of your lives.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO ANNOY MY MATE…
    Is by trying to fix or change him. Nothing dims his vibe more than feeling like a “project.”

FORTUNATELY, THAT’S EASY TO STOP…
By remembering how it feels when someone tries to “fix” me or treats me like I’m flawed in some way! Let’s allow our mates be who they are without trying to steer or guide them. Time to give that up! Freedom feels fabulous.

  1. THE MOST COMMON WAY I PUT PRESSURE ON MYSELF…
    Is by trying to teach someone something they’re not ready to know, by trying to correct someone’s mistake when they’re not at the point of wanting deeper understanding, by offering help to another out of sympathy instead of through inspiration. Correcting, “helping,” or sympathizing, often comes across more like control than genuine care.

WHEN SOMEONE MAKES A MISTAKE…
It’s not my job to let them know, to correct them, to teach them another way. They’ll FEEL it. The natural vibration of life draws to us the same energy that we are putting out. I have faith that balance will be restored when I relax, step aside, and allow the universe to work its magic once again.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO KILL EXCITEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP…
    Is by requiring endless rules, commitments, and agreements. Needing too much certainty in a relationship reduces spontaneity, variety, and Passion.

PASSION IS ENHANCED…
By breaking the rules, by loving without expecting anything in return, by living on the edge, and by trusting that “who you really are inside” is enough to attract the most delightful and glorious outcomes.

It’s good to know that when I think I might have ruined something, that a simple change in attitude or approach can make it way, way, way, better than before. The power is in my hands, it always has been, and always will be. ~ from the author of 500 Confessions 

How To Handle Relationship Problems?

Problems are temporary … and only last as long as I keep thinking about them.

So I go out and have as much fun as I can and do my best to not let them effect me, or else I’d get caught up in the drama of it all and be no use to anyone.

A relationship can still thrive, even if one mate is temporally facing challenges, even if one mate seems to be temporally heading in a different direction, even if one mate is temporarily focused somewhere else, even if one mate is temporarily missing in action … ONE PERSON WHO’S ALIGNED WITH LOVE can positively influence the lives of many and profoundly shape the course of the future.

Elizabeth Richardson

P.S. I love to love and to hold the highest thoughts of my mate, no matter what might seem to be going on. It doesn’t always keep the relationship together, but it does keep ME together, and that’s the most important part of all.

What To Do When Something Happens

There are three ways I can respond to situations.

  1. As if things just happen and my response to them is out of my control.
  2. As if things just happen and my response to them is based on how other people think I should respond, on how other people have responded in the past, on what society thinks is the “appropriate” response in each situation.
  3. As if things just happen and I can choose what I will focus on, I can influence the way I respond, I decide what it all means, I mold my own beliefs and create the life of MY dreams.

The BEST Questions To Ask Yourself

Hey, COME AND PLAY THIS GAME WITH ME!

Do you have a bad habit of questioning your decisions or thinking worrying thoughts about yourself or your life? I know I sometimes catch myself saying, “What’s the point!” OR “How on earth am I going to get this thing that I want!”

A few years ago I was listening to an interview with Dan Kuschell creator of Millionaires Mindset®. He trains people in direct marketing, and is also the author of: A Champion Vision. Part of the foundation Dan used to get to where he is now was by asking 3 powerful questions of himself each day. He says that he doesn’t even recall where he learned these three questions. He knows he didn’t invent them. What he does share is that answering these three questions became something incredibly powerful for him in only a handful of months.

Dan says he became a passion magnet because he answered these three questions on a daily basis. He challenges people to do this for as little as two weeks and then watch what happens to you as a person and how opportunities start popping up, things mentally, physically, socially, spiritually and financially.

Dan admitted for the most of his life he had attracted the wrong kind of person as a mate. What ended up happening is by starting this process, he actually attracted the angel into his life, who today is his wife. Roughly in about 90 days of starting to apply these principles to his business, he earned more in three months than he had the previous year.

It’s just amazing what these three questions can do. Now over the years I’ve done this several times for myself and I’m committed to doing it again for the next 30 days—simply because I know new habits can change our mindset (and our vibration) FOREVER. They can re-wire our brains in as little as one month—and when you’re really ready, it can even happen overnight! The outcomes for me have been exceptional. I wonder if you’ll notice a difference too.

To discover the simple process that gives amazing results without spending a cent, download this short and sweet PDF containing these 3 Most Powerful Questions and try it for yourself.

I think you too will be delighted with the results!

Thank you for allowing me to contribute to your life – it is truly fulfilling.

 

 

Original price was: $1.00.Current price is: $0.00.Add to Cart

 

How To Fall In Love All Over Again

TIP #59 – I ONLY HAVE ONE TIP ON HOW TO FALL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN

Remember what it was like when you were blind to the faults, when you asked nothing of your mate, when you didn’t need anything to be different, when you just loved wholeheartedly because it was a natural expression of your inner soul? Find that place again and live there as often as you can! Not because you should, but because it’s who you really are.

ER-signature

P.S. I love falling in love again and it’s totally up to me to find that vibe. What would YOU like to fall in love with all over again?

Download The First Section — FREE

500 Confessions Book 2 reveals how small shifts in attitude can help you stop second-guessing yourself, feel more confident in any situation and, bring back your spark!

book promo with cup 500 confessions book 2

This publication is designed to be Positively Uplifting. Book lovers report that gentle spiritual shifts happen effortlessly, in entertaining and light-hearted ways—just by reading! No processes, no strategies, no goal setting required. Just reading them helps you …

* Feel Better Faster and lets it be fun!
* Let Go the stuff that’s been holding you back. Hold On to what you really want.
* Become the Charismatic one in your group.
* Get Instant Relief from the things that have been bothering you.
* Try Less and Enjoy More.

Download the first section of 500 Confessions Book 2 and try it for free. Enter your details below to get instant access and read on a phone, computer, tablet, or kindle, right now. Have fun!

Pick up a free sample below; it might be just what you need 😉

TRY IT YOURSELF!

Enter your name and email to get instant access to the first section of 500 Confessions Book 2 to read on your computer, mobile phone, or kindle. And don’t worry, you won’t be auto subscribed to our list. It’s just a way to keep track of how many people resonate with this work.

 

Your information is 100% secure.

I Solve Problems In Fun Ways

I ENJOY MAKING UP WITH MY MATE … I overlook the need for an apology.

Can I instead tempt you to smear freezing cold ice-cream over my body as punishment for whatever you think I’ve done wrong?

I dunno … maybe some gentle spanking might be in order too … lol.

Sexual healing has far more success than discussing issues can possibly overcome
as it takes us out of our minds and connects us to a more spiritually fulfilling place.

~ from the author of 500 Confessions

This Too Will Change

THE HARDEST THINGS CAN BE THE MOST REWARDING

TO ACCEPT – even when I felt like condemning.
TO LOVE – even when my heart was hurting.
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF -. even when others doubted my abilities.
TO FIND STRENGTH – even when all hope was lost.
TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS .- even when I was afraid of the result.
TO TRUST MY INNER GUIDANCE – even though I was feeling stuck.
TO GO FOR WHAT I REALLY WANTED – even though it seemed unreasonable.
TO ALLOW MYSELF TO BE VULNERABLE – even when I was crying out for certainty.
TO HAVE FAITH THAT EVERYTHING IS WORKING OUT PERFECTLY – even if it seemed far from the truth.
TO KNOW IT’S OK TO BE WHERE I’M AT – because this too will change,
even if I don’t know the answer,
even if I haven’t found clarity,
even if I’m not yet aware of the solution
and even if I do nothing at all.

I Have A Selective Memory

I have a selective memory for the things that bring me joy, for the feelings that still my mind, for the words that brighten my day, for the beauty that makes me smile, for the peace that warms my soul and for the love that fills my heart … You know that disagreement we had yesterday? I can’t even remember what it was about. My selective memory sorted that all out!

P.S. Isn’t it nice to be with someone who remembers who you are when you’re at your best and let’s the less desirable aspects be put to rest? I like to be that for others too. It makes me feel so good!

Why Aren’t I Getting What I Want?

PROBLEM: If the Law Of Attraction really works, why aren’t I getting what I want?

SOLUTION: Every desire has a contrasting “REASON” that stimulated it!

* If I want more money it’s because I’ve decided I don’t have enough FREEDOM or SECURITY.
* If I want a relationship, it’s because I think I’m not getting enough LOVE or SEX.
* If I want a new Lamborghini, it’s because the car I have isn’t making me feel RICH or SUCCESSFUL.
* If I want better health, it’s because I’ve been paying more attention to my illness than to my natural state of wellness.

The question then becomes, “Which side of the contrast am I giving more attention?” Law Of Attraction is constantly showing me the answer to that one.

ER-signature

(Author of Unconditional Happiness & Releasing Resistance)

Releasing Resistance – FOR MEN

*RELEASING RESISTANCE* IS A BOOK & A WAY TO REDUCE STRESS.
“Releasing Resistance” is a 150 page book that takes you step by step through a series of 38 Highly Effective Leading Edge Processes, from Revealing your Silent But Deadly Beliefs, How To Make Things Happen Quicker, Beating Procrastination, Transforming Relationships, Overcoming Addictions to Starting Over so you can discover EXACTLY what’s been stopping you from having YOUR life, the way YOU want it!

 

before you set a new goal, why not do a 17 day process to release your resistance first. Then it's a given!

 

releasing-resistance-book

Who is this book for?

Releasing Resistance is for MEN who generally know what they need to do, but just can’t seem to do it!

If any area of your life feels stagnant, stale or stuck, whether it be in a relationship, the lack of relationship, money, health, home, work, your body or your business, you will be given the tools to help you get momentum flowing in a positive direction, steadily, increasing in intensity, while gently raising your vibration.

This book not only helps you find out exactly what’s been holding you back but gives you a systematic way so you can effectively, easily and sustainable LET GO those pesky little resistant things once and for all and LET IN the big things you really want to manifest instead!

How long does it take for things to manifest?

As long as it takes for you to RELEASE THE RESISTANCE!

How will this book benefit me?

This book contains proven and highly effective processes to release resistance, so that you can find relief, peace, contentment and joy more often, more consistently and more sustainably, without some other person or life condition needing to change.

It also contains leading edge answers to some very common questions.

  • What to do when you want to have better relationships.
  • What to do when you need to overcome addictions.
  • What to do when you don’t have enough money.
  • What to do when you are desperate to lose weight.
  • What to do when you haven’t been able to get what you want.
  • What to do when you need to release the resistance.
  • What to do when you doubt your abilities.
  • What to do when you keep procrastinating.
  • What to do when you think you’re too old, too ugly, too tired, too stupid or too broken etc.

Most times we think that it takes BIG changes to improve our lives, when really it’s the little everyday habits that hold us back the most. Silent self-criticism, getting up in a rush, worrying about things that may never happen, doing work out of obligation instead of joy, eating things we know aren’t good for us, watching the news, telling people what’s gone wrong instead of celebrating what’s going right, feeding our fears, doubting our own capabilities, getting upset about world events that we can’t possible change … what this book does is make changing ourselves easy! With this series of simple but powerful processes, the change happens inside us, which then manifests in the world around us. It helps us feel more purposeful, more aligned, more determined, more empowered and more confident to go out and truly live the lives, we secretly dream of living.

Improving your life starts with modifying the most simple, everyday thought patterns that we’re giving energy to, often without realizing. It works like a light dimmer switch. If you switch the light from fully-on to fully-off, you notice the difference immediately. But a small negative thought practiced occasionally, just dims your life force over time. But it will get your attention eventually. By then, you will notice it through outer physical manifestations, like health issues, decreased energy, tiredness, accidents, relationship challenges, work dissatisfaction, emotional instability, mood swings, unhappiness, addictions and drama.

The empowering processes contained in this book, while often simple, quick and easy to fulfill, hold a high potential for positive personal expansion. The concepts you are about to practice, require a slight shift in focus, conversation and habitual action in order to create the space to receive the things you would prefer to manifest in your life instead. Sometimes the biggest shift occurs when we realize we’ve been working way too hard to get what we want, and all it takes now is to let go the struggle, release the resistance and allow it to be easy.

Expect to receive those shifts, in your awareness, belief system, identity, habits, emotions and most importantly, in your results. The recommendation is to set a time of about 17 days to complete all the processes, and to get the most benefit.

I’m truly looking forward to hearing about what’s worked for you and how you may have modified any of the processes to suit your individual situation.

What feels right for you matters,

ER-signature

(AUTHOR of 500 Confessions and Releasing Resistance)

PRICE STARTS AT $6.99 USD

$12.00Buy On Amazon

What To Do When Something Bad Happens

WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS … it means, whatever you want it to mean! So make it mean something that feels freakin’ good.

I’m on track.
Something better is coming.
This is preparing me for my next adventure.
There’s more where that came from.
I’m getting wiser.
That helps me get clearer.
What a great opportunity to start again.
Nothing ends, it just keeps evolving.
Bring it on! I can handle anything!
If it feels good – it’s good FOR ME.

ER-signature

P.S. What meaning will YOU give it?