The Pleasure Is All Mine

THE BEST FOREPLAY FOR WOMEN … has little to do with her mate and everything to do with the way she nurtures her body, soothes her mind and enlivens her spirit. Feeling sensual, sexy, soft, pretty, sweet, playful and naughty are useful feminine emotions that will entice the perfect masculine attention we so often crave.

Even as a single woman I would dress up and dance, soak in the tub, burn scented candles and do whatever it took to make myself feel ‘special’ … our energy attracts like bees to pollen … and our men love a reason to be out of their minds!

Don’t you agree?

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What To Do If Someone Hurts Or Disrespects You

QUESTION: What do you do if someone hurts or disrespects you?

ANSWER: You think about it in a different way!

  • Whenever I decide to feel HONOURED, APPRECIATED and RESPECTED … the evidence that I am, shows itself to me.
  • Whenever I decide to feel LOVED, CHERISHED and ADORED the evidence that I am, shows itself to me.
  • Whenever I decide to feel SUCCESSFUL, PROSPEROUS and FREE the evidence that I am, shows itself to me.
  • Whenever I decide to feel any way I want, life proves me to be right. We have all been given that power … the power to consciously choose how we want to feel and to deliberately focus our attention in that direction!

NOTHING NEEDS TO BE THE WAY YOU CURRENTLY “THINK” IT IS: You can think anything into a different place and attract an entirely different outcome. But make sure you do the majority of your “thinking” while you’re feeling good.

A PERSONAL STORY: For the first 40 or so years of my life I was convinced my father hated me. He was really hard on me, we fought a lot and he seemed to spend more time finding fault that giving praise. But while watching a video of a Tony Robbins Live Seminar one day, my entire outlook shifted in an instant. Tony asked the person, “What if your father did those things because he loved you?” BOOM! This was a concept I’d never considered before and it truly, wonderfully, magically changed my life and my relationship with my father overnight. And the timing was perfect. I was able to spend some much needed quality time with him just before he died. That experience was priceless and well worth the wait.

It was the first time I remember having “real power” in my life. I was convinced it was HIM who needed to change. Now I know for sure that it’s me — even when I think it’s not up to me, it is — it’s always me!

It’s All About ME!

With so much love,

Elizabeth xox

P.S. If you have a comment, a question or an uplifting story to tell, please leave your message in the comments below. What you have to say might be just what someone else needs to read.

Relationships Bring Out The Best In Me

I WAS ALREADY HAPPY … but choosing someone to share life with helps me find joy, meaning and purpose so much quicker.
I WAS ALREADY WISE … but being in a relationship provides greater opportunities to open my heart and mind even wider.
I WAS ALREADY LOVED …  but the simple things we do with each other expands my understanding of intimacy even more.
I WAS ALREADY SPECIAL … but the way he treats me lets me know I’m the most precious jewel in the world to him.
I WAS ALREADY WHOLE … but when our bodies are entwined or his hand is holding mine, it makes me feel even more complete.
I WAS ALREADY BLESSED … but deciding to focus on only uplifting things about each other blesses both of us beyond description.
I WAS ALREADY AT PEACE … but when we are together, it seems as if the soft essence of God is wrapping around us all and enhances my experience of life in greater degrees than I thought possible.

CONFESSION #1026 – from 500 Confessions BOOK 3

How To Feel Passionate Again

THE QUICKEST WAY TO FEEL PASSIONATE AGAIN … is to give all I’ve got to give, even of it means I might get hurt, fail, cause conflict, face contrast, die or lose my soul.

When I was too afraid to live life fully I was so emotionally disconnected, I may as well have been dead. Now as I fill myself up to overflowing, I have more value to contribute, more heightened emotions to feel and more joy expanding experiences to live, than ever before.

Elizabeth xox

P.S. I love knowing that it’s up to me to find the feeling of passion again. It isn’t up to someone else to give it to me 🙂

Hardest Things Can Be The Most Rewarding

TO ACCEPT … even when I felt like condemning.
TO LOVE … even when my heart was hurting.
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF … even when others doubted my abilities.
TO FIND STRENGTH … even when all hope was lost.
TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS … even when I was afraid of the result.
TO TRUST MY INNER GUIDANCE … even though I was feeling stuck.
TO GO FOR WHAT I REALLY WANTED … even though it seemed unreasonable.
TO ALLOW MYSELF TO BE VULNERABLE … even when I was crying out for certainty.
TO HAVE FAITH THAT EVERYTHING IS WORKING OUT PERFECTLY … even if it seemed far from the truth.
TO KNOW IT’S OK TO BE WHERE I’M AT … because this too will change, even if I don’t know the answer, even if I haven’t found clarity, even if I’m not yet aware of the solution and even if I do nothing at all. ~ Confession #387

A Message To My Beloved

I accept, acknowledge and adore you for all that you are.
I’ll help you to realise that you are so much more than you know.
I vow to be true to ME and encourage you to be true to YOU too.

Together we are moving into closer alignment,
enjoying more lightness, love and laughter,
sensing a renewed vigour, vitality and zest,
feeling the deep comfort of our cherished history,
and knowing the eager excitement of living
something fresh and new each day.

With a deeper appreciation of ALL the aspects
of who we are now becoming,
as we evolve through this life
alongside each other.

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(author of 500 Confessions)

I Found My Soul-mate

I FOUND MY SOUL-MATE

… who believes in me even more than I believe in myself,
… who is constantly close by to listen, to understand, to care, to comfort
… someone who I can trust with my deepest desires, who always wants the best for me,
… who loves me and will never leave me
… and who was inside me all along!

CONFESSION #544 – 500 Confessions BOOK 2

Uplifting A Relationship

I HAVE AN EFFECTIVE WAY OF UPLIFTING A RELATIONSHIP

When someone’s not behaving well – don’t mention it.
When someone’s in a bad mood – don’t mention it.
When someone’s disconnected from “who they really are” – don’t mention it.
When someone’s felt the need to complain – don’t mention it.
When someone’s been really angry, depressed or negative – don’t mention it.
When someone’s done something that hurts me – don’t mention it.

We all know when we’re not being our best. Giving attention to the negative aspects of life adds fuel to the fire. I’ve developed such a security about who I am that I don’t need someone else to change so I can feel better … I can stop taking things so personally, I can let go of the past, I can live in the way that’s right for me and I CAN LEAD BY EXAMPLE and SHOW them how it’s done. ~ (NEW Confession #781)

Looking For Love In The Wrong Places

I LOOKED FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES

I thought my mate should change so I could love him more. I expected my kids to behave so they were worthy of my praise. I though YOU should believe the same things I do so I could shower you with blessings, but I was wrong. That’s not real love, that’s conditional love.

I DECIDED TO LOVE ANYWAY!

I decided to accept others just the way they are no matter what they were thinking, I decided to praise the essence of each person I meet no matter what they were doing, I decided to bless you no matter what you believe. not because you deserve it, not because it’s the right thing to do, not because I’ll go to heaven when I die, but because it’s the best way I know to BE THE LOVE THAT IS ME.

I Take Care Of Myself

I’M PAMPERING MYSELF AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE

I’m hanging around people who are fun to be with, I’m taking more time out when something seems hard, I’m no longer assuming responsibility for how other people are feeling, I’m doing what seems right to me, I’m expecting wonderful things to happen, I’m deciding that life can be easy, I’m releasing myself from tending to the demands of others, I’m letting go all the stuff that hurts, I’m opening up to a more aligned relationship, I’m loving myself first and I’m living fully as if the universe has the most incredible future in store for me.

from the author of 500 Confessions