IT’S EASY TO RUIN A RELATIONSHIP… Just by talking about the negative aspects of my mate. Even thinking about faults can shift the energy, creating tension that lingers like a bad smell in the air. Sometimes, both people end up feeling awful, without even knowing why! FORTUNATELY, IT’S JUST AS EASY TO FIX IT… By…
Relationships
Leading-edge attitudes to promote harmony, acceptance and the peace, that enhances every relationship.
How To Handle Relationship Problems?
Problems are temporary … and only last as long as I keep thinking about them. So I go out and have as much fun as I can and do my best to not let them effect me, or else I’d get caught up in the drama of it all and be no use to anyone.…
I Love Because It’s Who I Am
When I expect something in return for the love I give … then it isn’t really love at all — it’s manipulation. Instead, I love because it’s who I am, because it makes me feel good, because it’s an expression of my innermost divine essence. ~ from the author of 500 Confessions
I Solve Problems In Fun Ways
I ENJOY MAKING UP WITH MY MATE … I overlook the need for an apology. Can I instead tempt you to smear freezing cold ice-cream over my body as punishment for whatever you think I’ve done wrong? I dunno … maybe some gentle spanking might be in order too … lol. Sexual healing has far more…
I Have A Selective Memory
I have a selective memory for the things that bring me joy, for the feelings that still my mind, for the words that brighten my day, for the beauty that makes me smile, for the peace that warms my soul and for the love that fills my heart … You know that disagreement we had…
I’m Speaking Less and Enjoying More
Sometimes I catch myself wanting to wedge my words of wisdom into a conversation, but words are wasted unless the other person is ready and open to receiving them. Giving unsolicited advice is like cooking meat for a vegetarian – useless and even potentially harmful. I’m glad I’m getting better at maintaining silence, allowing other…
I Set Boundaries
I SET BOUNDARIES … but the boundaries I set are for my benefit, not to condemn someone else’s behaviour. If I’m temporarily unable to find a persons most positive aspects when I think about them, I withdraw my attention from them completely until I can. YOU SEE I LOVE TO FEEL GOOD more than anything else.…
What To Do When You’re Missing Someone
It’s impossible to miss someone, when you decide to just love them, whether they’re present or not. P.S. Did you find that thought slightly comforting? That’s what these messages are intending to do.
The Pleasure Is All Mine
THE BEST FOREPLAY FOR WOMEN … has little to do with her mate and everything to do with the way she nurtures her body, soothes her mind and enlivens her spirit. Feeling sensual, sexy, soft, pretty, sweet, playful and naughty are useful feminine emotions that will entice the perfect masculine attention we so often crave.…
Boosting The Energy In A Relationship
FOUR SIMPLE (Leading-Edge) ATTITUDES THAT BOOST THE ENERGY IN MY RELATIONSHIP 1. I TAKE CARE OF MY OWN NEEDS FIRST … When I’m full of love for life, the people around me are showered with affection, appreciation and praise. I need nothing from them and can give from a totally unconditional place. “We only NEED…
What To Do If Someone Hurts Or Disrespects You
QUESTION: What do you do if someone hurts or disrespects you? ANSWER: You think about it in a different way! Whenever I decide to feel HONOURED, APPRECIATED and RESPECTED … the evidence that I am, shows itself to me. Whenever I decide to feel LOVED, CHERISHED and ADORED the evidence that I am, shows itself…
Relationships Bring Out The Best In Me
I WAS ALREADY HAPPY … but choosing someone to share life with helps me find joy, meaning and purpose so much quicker. I WAS ALREADY WISE … but being in a relationship provides greater opportunities to open my heart and mind even wider. I WAS ALREADY LOVED … but the simple things we do with each other…
The Best Way To Improve A Relationship
THE BEST THING I EVER DO TO ENHANCE MY RELATIONSHIP … is to believe my mate really is the incredible guy I love being with, to pretend he has every good quality I could possibly want and to treat him as if he is the most wonderful man in the world … and he just…
How To Get Your Mate To Be Faithful
TIP #44 I ONLY HAVE ONE TIP ON HOW TO GET YOUR MATE TO BE FAITHFUL Don’t expect it, don’t demand it, don’t try to enforce it, don’t make an issue of it … understand that it’s a value that someone can really only give you as a gift in each moment, when they feel like…
My Love Is A Gift
MY LOVE IS A GIFT and I expect nothing in return. What you do with that gift is entirely up to you. No matter what happens, I take each opportunity to decide who I am in spite of you, rather than finding out who I am in “response” to you. I prefer to grow in…
How To Feel Passionate Again
THE QUICKEST WAY TO FEEL PASSIONATE AGAIN … is to give all I’ve got to give, even of it means I might get hurt, fail, cause conflict, face contrast, die or lose my soul. When I was too afraid to live life fully I was so emotionally disconnected, I may as well have been dead. Now…
I’m Staying True To What Feels Right For Me
I KNEW I’D GOT THE DEEPER MESSAGE … when it felt better to remain faithful, even if someone wasn’t being faithful to me. … when I stopped being negative, about other people who were often very negative. … when I held back my criticism, of those who were prone to criticizing. … when I allowed…
If It Feels Good – I DO It!
IF IT FEELS GOOD … I do it. IF IT MAKES ME SMILE … I think about it. IF IT BRIGHTENS MY EMOTIONS … I remember it. IF IT MAKES MY HEART SING … I talk about it. IF IT SOUNDS LIKE GOOD NEWS … I share it. IF IT MOVES ME TOWARDS THE LIFE…