Who really has the power?
- When I assume someone else is causing a problem – it’s really me!
- When I think someone else should change – it’s really me that needs to change my attitude!
- When I focus on what someone else has done wrong – it’s really me who’s focusing in the wrong direction!
- When I believe someone’s stopping me from having what I want – it’s really me preventing good things from coming!
Everything starts, continues and ends with the attention I keep giving to it – period!
P.S. This is such a liberating perspective, and when I finally GOT IT, one of the most significant relationships of my life transformed in a miraculous way overnight. I love it when things like that happen. But I was ready. You can’t fake or force a transformation. You can only be open and welcoming and willing and “allow it to be”.
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