8 Ways to Ruin a Relationship—and How to Fix It in a Flash

  1. IT’S EASY TO RUIN A RELATIONSHIP…
    Just by talking about the negative aspects of my mate. Even thinking about faults can shift the energy, creating tension that lingers like a bad smell in the air. Sometimes, both people end up feeling awful, without even knowing why!

FORTUNATELY, IT’S JUST AS EASY TO FIX IT…
By remembering our happiest moments, appreciating what’s great in the present, and envisioning an even better future together. A little acknowledgment of positive behaviours goes a long way in rekindling the warmth.

  1. IT’S EASY TO MESS UP A RELATIONSHIP…
    Simply by talking about problems. The more we focus on issues, the bigger they seem to grow, our level of intimacy dissipates rapidly, and the distance between us feels wider than ever.

FORTUNATELY, FIXING IT IS SIMPLE…
By moving into solution mode—exploring ideas together, welcoming insights from others, and trusting that the universe is cooking up even greater solutions tailor-made just for us.

  1. IT’S EASY TO DIMINISH THE LOVE A RELATIONSHIP…
    By expecting something in return for what I give to my mate. Love isn’t about trading favours, compromising, or keeping score—it’s about free-flowing generosity. Keeping tabs can suffocate passion like taking a fish out of water!

FORTUNATELY, IT’S EASY TO CHANGE …
By honouring myself enough to give what I want, whenever I want, as often as I want, to whoever I want, and NOT expect anything in return. When I treat myself well first, love spills over to everyone around me, naturally, with no strings attached.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO KILL A MAN’S PASSION…
    Is by insisting he put our relationship first above everything else—his mission, his hobbies, his friends, his work. A man’s purpose is as essential to his life as the air that he breathes. When he chooses to do it of his own free will, without prompting or guidance, well, there is not much on earth that compares to that feeling!

FORTUNATELY, I CAN CHANGE THIS FAST & COME BACK INTO MY OWN POWER…
By nurturing my own needs, by taking time out, by treating my body, by calming my mind, by soothing my soul, and reigniting my feminine energy, knowing this fresh new glow will most likely draw him in, closer than ever.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO KILL A WOMAN’S PASSION…
    Is by expecting her to be calm, reasonable, and rational. (Yes, that will do it every time!)

FORTUNATELY, THERE’S A REALLY QUICK, EASY, AND FUN WAY TO FIX THIS…
Embracing her waves of emotion and intensity can spark the fire in a relationship in ways you might never expect. The variety she provides is like taking an incredible holiday in a brand new destination every day, for the rest of your lives.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO ANNOY MY MATE…
    Is by trying to fix or change him. Nothing dims his vibe more than feeling like a “project.”

FORTUNATELY, THAT’S EASY TO STOP…
By remembering how it feels when someone tries to “fix” me or treats me like I’m flawed in some way! Let’s allow our mates be who they are without trying to steer or guide them. Time to give that up! Freedom feels fabulous.

  1. THE MOST COMMON WAY I PUT PRESSURE ON MYSELF…
    Is by trying to teach someone something they’re not ready to know, by trying to correct someone’s mistake when they’re not at the point of wanting deeper understanding, by offering help to another out of sympathy instead of through inspiration. Correcting, “helping,” or sympathizing, often comes across more like control than genuine care.

WHEN SOMEONE MAKES A MISTAKE…
It’s not my job to let them know, to correct them, to teach them another way. They’ll FEEL it. The natural vibration of life draws to us the same energy that we are putting out. I have faith that balance will be restored when I relax, step aside, and allow the universe to work its magic once again.

  1. THE QUICKEST WAY TO KILL EXCITEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP…
    Is by requiring endless rules, commitments, and agreements. Needing too much certainty in a relationship reduces spontaneity, variety, and Passion.

PASSION IS ENHANCED…
By breaking the rules, by loving without expecting anything in return, by living on the edge, and by trusting that “who you really are inside” is enough to attract the most delightful and glorious outcomes.

It’s good to know that when I think I might have ruined something, that a simple change in attitude or approach can make it way, way, way, better than before. The power is in my hands, it always has been, and always will be. ~ from the author of 500 Confessions 

How To Handle Relationship Problems?

Problems are temporary … and only last as long as I keep thinking about them.

So I go out and have as much fun as I can and do my best to not let them effect me, or else I’d get caught up in the drama of it all and be no use to anyone.

A relationship can still thrive, even if one mate is temporally facing challenges, even if one mate seems to be temporally heading in a different direction, even if one mate is temporarily focused somewhere else, even if one mate is temporarily missing in action … ONE PERSON WHO’S ALIGNED WITH LOVE can positively influence the lives of many and profoundly shape the course of the future.

Elizabeth Richardson

P.S. I love to love and to hold the highest thoughts of my mate, no matter what might seem to be going on. It doesn’t always keep the relationship together, but it does keep ME together, and that’s the most important part of all.

I Solve Problems In Fun Ways

I ENJOY MAKING UP WITH MY MATE … I overlook the need for an apology.

Can I instead tempt you to smear freezing cold ice-cream over my body as punishment for whatever you think I’ve done wrong?

I dunno … maybe some gentle spanking might be in order too … lol.

Sexual healing has far more success than discussing issues can possibly overcome
as it takes us out of our minds and connects us to a more spiritually fulfilling place.

~ from the author of 500 Confessions

When You’re Not Sure What Someone Else Thinks

WHAT SOMEONE ELSE THINKS IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS

When I focus on being true to myself, thinking happy thoughts, having uplifting conversations and doing the things I am most inspired to do, there is no need to ask questions about what someone else might be doing, thinking or feeling.

What I AM thinking and feeling is the only thing that I can ever be certain of and is the only thing that ever really matters.

Elizabeth xox

Releasing Resistance – FOR MEN

*RELEASING RESISTANCE* IS A BOOK & A WAY TO REDUCE STRESS.
“Releasing Resistance” is a 150 page book that takes you step by step through a series of 38 Highly Effective Leading Edge Processes, from Revealing your Silent But Deadly Beliefs, How To Make Things Happen Quicker, Beating Procrastination, Transforming Relationships, Overcoming Addictions to Starting Over so you can discover EXACTLY what’s been stopping you from having YOUR life, the way YOU want it!

 

before you set a new goal, why not do a 17 day process to release your resistance first. Then it's a given!

 

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Who is this book for?

Releasing Resistance is for MEN who generally know what they need to do, but just can’t seem to do it!

If any area of your life feels stagnant, stale or stuck, whether it be in a relationship, the lack of relationship, money, health, home, work, your body or your business, you will be given the tools to help you get momentum flowing in a positive direction, steadily, increasing in intensity, while gently raising your vibration.

This book not only helps you find out exactly what’s been holding you back but gives you a systematic way so you can effectively, easily and sustainable LET GO those pesky little resistant things once and for all and LET IN the big things you really want to manifest instead!

How long does it take for things to manifest?

As long as it takes for you to RELEASE THE RESISTANCE!

How will this book benefit me?

This book contains proven and highly effective processes to release resistance, so that you can find relief, peace, contentment and joy more often, more consistently and more sustainably, without some other person or life condition needing to change.

It also contains leading edge answers to some very common questions.

  • What to do when you want to have better relationships.
  • What to do when you need to overcome addictions.
  • What to do when you don’t have enough money.
  • What to do when you are desperate to lose weight.
  • What to do when you haven’t been able to get what you want.
  • What to do when you need to release the resistance.
  • What to do when you doubt your abilities.
  • What to do when you keep procrastinating.
  • What to do when you think you’re too old, too ugly, too tired, too stupid or too broken etc.

Most times we think that it takes BIG changes to improve our lives, when really it’s the little everyday habits that hold us back the most. Silent self-criticism, getting up in a rush, worrying about things that may never happen, doing work out of obligation instead of joy, eating things we know aren’t good for us, watching the news, telling people what’s gone wrong instead of celebrating what’s going right, feeding our fears, doubting our own capabilities, getting upset about world events that we can’t possible change … what this book does is make changing ourselves easy! With this series of simple but powerful processes, the change happens inside us, which then manifests in the world around us. It helps us feel more purposeful, more aligned, more determined, more empowered and more confident to go out and truly live the lives, we secretly dream of living.

Improving your life starts with modifying the most simple, everyday thought patterns that we’re giving energy to, often without realizing. It works like a light dimmer switch. If you switch the light from fully-on to fully-off, you notice the difference immediately. But a small negative thought practiced occasionally, just dims your life force over time. But it will get your attention eventually. By then, you will notice it through outer physical manifestations, like health issues, decreased energy, tiredness, accidents, relationship challenges, work dissatisfaction, emotional instability, mood swings, unhappiness, addictions and drama.

The empowering processes contained in this book, while often simple, quick and easy to fulfill, hold a high potential for positive personal expansion. The concepts you are about to practice, require a slight shift in focus, conversation and habitual action in order to create the space to receive the things you would prefer to manifest in your life instead. Sometimes the biggest shift occurs when we realize we’ve been working way too hard to get what we want, and all it takes now is to let go the struggle, release the resistance and allow it to be easy.

Expect to receive those shifts, in your awareness, belief system, identity, habits, emotions and most importantly, in your results. The recommendation is to set a time of about 17 days to complete all the processes, and to get the most benefit.

I’m truly looking forward to hearing about what’s worked for you and how you may have modified any of the processes to suit your individual situation.

What feels right for you matters,

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(AUTHOR of 500 Confessions and Releasing Resistance)

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What To Do If Someone Hurts Or Disrespects You

QUESTION: What do you do if someone hurts or disrespects you?

ANSWER: You think about it in a different way!

  • Whenever I decide to feel HONOURED, APPRECIATED and RESPECTED … the evidence that I am, shows itself to me.
  • Whenever I decide to feel LOVED, CHERISHED and ADORED the evidence that I am, shows itself to me.
  • Whenever I decide to feel SUCCESSFUL, PROSPEROUS and FREE the evidence that I am, shows itself to me.
  • Whenever I decide to feel any way I want, life proves me to be right. We have all been given that power … the power to consciously choose how we want to feel and to deliberately focus our attention in that direction!

NOTHING NEEDS TO BE THE WAY YOU CURRENTLY “THINK” IT IS: You can think anything into a different place and attract an entirely different outcome. But make sure you do the majority of your “thinking” while you’re feeling good.

A PERSONAL STORY: For the first 40 or so years of my life I was convinced my father hated me. He was really hard on me, we fought a lot and he seemed to spend more time finding fault that giving praise. But while watching a video of a Tony Robbins Live Seminar one day, my entire outlook shifted in an instant. Tony asked the person, “What if your father did those things because he loved you?” BOOM! This was a concept I’d never considered before and it truly, wonderfully, magically changed my life and my relationship with my father overnight. And the timing was perfect. I was able to spend some much needed quality time with him just before he died. That experience was priceless and well worth the wait.

It was the first time I remember having “real power” in my life. I was convinced it was HIM who needed to change. Now I know for sure that it’s me — even when I think it’s not up to me, it is — it’s always me!

It’s All About ME!

With so much love,

Elizabeth xox

P.S. If you have a comment, a question or an uplifting story to tell, please leave your message in the comments below. What you have to say might be just what someone else needs to read.

I Laugh At Problems Now

I REALLY DO LAUGH AT PROBLEMS NOW … Years ago we were taught that we should work on our issues, that we had to get to the bottom of it all before we could really let something go.

Ha ha ha ha ha aha ha ha ha … oh wow, that was hard work and oh how guilty I felt for most of my life.

But underneath, I always knew life was meant to be easier than that! So these days I quietly acknowledge the issue then just give it all to God/The Universe to handle for me. When I’m in that trusting state I can relax again, I can laugh at it all, and the solutions just come, it all happens easily, and most often when I’m focused on something completely different.

Elizabeth xox

P.S. I used to call them MY problems as if I owned them. You might notice people refer to things such as MY cancer, MY disabilities, MY worries etc. Lately I’ve found it really empowering to soften the effect and lessen the vibrational impact on my psyche, by just calling them simply “problems”. This is working extremely well and I’m so pleased I made the change.

Unconditional Happiness – FOR WOMEN

Who is this book for?

Unconditional Happiness is for WOMEN who generally know what they need to do, but just can’t seem to do it!

If any area of your life feels stagnant, stale or stuck, whether it be in a relationship, the lack of relationship, money, health, home, work, your body or your business, you will be given the tools to help you get momentum flowing in a positive direction, steadily, increasing in intensity, while gently raising your vibration.

This book not only helps you find out exactly what’s been holding you back but gives you a systematic way so you can effectively, easily and sustainable LET GO those pesky little resistant things once and for all and LET IN the big things you really want to manifest instead!

How long does it take for things to manifest?

As long as it takes for you to RELEASE THE RESISTANCE!

How will this book benefit me?

This book contains proven and highly effective processes to release resistance, so that you can find relief, peace, contentment and joy more often, more consistently and more sustainably, without some other person or life condition needing to change.

It also contains leading edge answers to some very common questions.

  • What to do when you want to have better relationships.
  • What to do when you need to overcome addictions.
  • What to do when you don’t have enough money.
  • What to do when you are desperate to lose weight.
  • What to do when you haven’t been able to get what you want.
  • What to do when you need to release the resistance.
  • What to do when you doubt your abilities.
  • What to do when you keep procrastinating.
  • What to do when you think you’re too old, too ugly, too tired, too stupid or too broken etc.

Most times we think that it takes BIG changes to improve our lives, when really it’s the little everyday habits that hold us back the most. Silent self-criticism, getting up in a rush, worrying about things that may never happen, doing work out of obligation instead of joy, eating things we know aren’t good for us, watching the news, telling people what’s gone wrong instead of celebrating what’s going right, feeding our fears, doubting our own capabilities, getting upset about world events that we can’t possible change … what this book does is make changing ourselves easy! With this series of simple but powerful processes, the change happens inside us, which then manifests in the world around us. It helps us feel more purposeful, more aligned, more determined, more empowered and more confident to go out and truly live the lives, we secretly dream of living.

Improving your life starts with modifying the most simple, everyday thought patterns that we’re giving energy to, often without realizing. It works like a light dimmer switch. If you switch the light from fully-on to fully-off, you notice the difference immediately. But a small negative thought practiced occasionally, just dims your life force over time. But it will get your attention eventually. By then, you will notice it through outer physical manifestations, like health issues, decreased energy, tiredness, accidents, relationship challenges, work dissatisfaction, emotional instability, mood swings, unhappiness, addictions and drama.

The empowering processes contained in this book, while often simple, quick and easy to fulfill, hold a high potential for positive personal expansion. The concepts you are about to practice, require a slight shift in focus, conversation and habitual action in order to create the space to receive the things you would prefer to manifest in your life instead. Sometimes the biggest shift occurs when we realize we’ve been working way too hard to get what we want, and all it takes now is to let go the struggle, release the resistance and allow it to be easy.

Expect to receive those shifts, in your awareness, belief system, identity, habits, emotions and most importantly, in your results. The recommendation is to set a time of about 17 days to complete all the processes, and to get the most benefit.

I’m truly looking forward to hearing about what’s worked for you and how you may have modified any of the processes to suit your individual situation.

What feels right for you matters,

ER-signature

(AUTHOR of 500 Confessions and Unconditional Happiness)

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