The Only Thing That Matters

THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS IS WHERE I AM RIGHT NOW

I’m not a failure, I’m just learning more.

Nothing is wrong, in fact everything is going perfectly right.

I don’t hate my ex, I just got clearer about the relationship I really want.

I’m not always disconnected, quite often I feel the fullness of “all that is”.

I don’t have to focus on the worst, I can keep reaching for something so much better.

I don’t have to hold onto the things that cause pain, I can relax and allow things that bring relief.

This situation doesn’t need to cause me despair, I can activate the parts that thrill me beyond description.

It’s all so much easier than I once thought,

~ from the author of 500 Confessions

There Are Things I Just Won’t Do

THERE ARE THINGS I JUST WON’T DO

  • If a thought doesn’t make me happy … then I won’t think it!
  • If a conversation doesn’t sound uplifting … then I won’t get involved in it!
  • If a news story doesn’t feel good … then I won’t watch it!
  • If a belief limits my potential … then I stop repeating it!

The things that I focus on, get bigger, so I choose to focus on how I want my life to be instead.

~ 500 Confessions #421

I Always Get What I Want

I ALWAYS GET WHAT I WANT … especially:

  • When I use my mind to focus on where I want to go,
  • When I use my heart to show me the way,
  • When I use my feelings to know if I’m on track and
  • When I use the powers of the universe to bring me everything my mind decides, my feelings define and my heart desires.

I always get what I want … in the very moment I release the resistance to receiving it! – Confession #336

It’s All About ME!

Who really has the power?

  • When I assume someone else is causing a problem – it’s really me!
  • When I think someone else should change – it’s really me that needs to change my attitude!
  • When I focus on what someone else has done wrong – it’s really me who’s focusing in the wrong direction!
  • When I believe someone’s stopping me from having what I want – it’s really me preventing good things from coming!

Everything starts, continues and ends with the attention I keep giving to it – period!

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P.S. This is such a liberating perspective, and when I finally GOT IT, one of the most significant relationships of my life transformed in a miraculous way overnight. I love it when things like that happen. But I was ready. You can’t fake or force a transformation. You can only be open and welcoming and willing and “allow it to be”.